Should a Dom allow his sub to be more independent if he is not well so she can care for him better and to relieve him of the stress of caring for another person?

Absolutely.

Not much more to add to this except that sometimes dominant people need to be cared for due to injury, illness, etc.  That necessarily requires that the submissive person must become more independent in order to temporarily provide.

As soon as things get back to normal, get the dynamic back to normal, too.

-VIS

Could you give some examples of gaslighting please? Thank you! F/20/5’2/120/USA

I already did.  Weren’t you listening?  Geez, sometimes I think you’re too dumb for your own good.  I already gave you about 10 examples and you’re still not getting it through your thick little skull.  Still, I love ya to bits, even if you’re a dummy.

😉

5 pieces of information.  Gold Star!  Very good girl!

-VIS

Thank you!

femaledenialdiary:

vintageinstepford:

amindlessrose:

vintageinstepford:

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has purchased either one (or both) of my 2 books from Amazon.

I received another royalty payment overnight and thought it was only right to thank you all for supporting my writing.

-VIS

Books??

You can find my book titles here:

http://vintageinstepford.com/books

Or by going to Amazon and searching 101 Bimbo Mantras by Mr. V. I. Stepford, and Meditations & Reflections by Joseph Kahler (both pseudonyms).

In December, I’m hoping to complete a long-standing project: 101 Topics Mansplained for Girls.  If all goes well, it will be released in time for Christmas.

-VIS

Omg yes. The second ones sounds so good 😍😍 I wanna buy it for Christmas!!😶😶😶 they say books aren’t for girls but they haven’t saw these pieces!!

Thinky thinky books are not for girls, and Meditations & Reflections is somewhat of a thinky thinky book.  Mind you, it has some very simple prose in there that you might appreciate.

I’m going to need help from my followers to come up with topics for the mansplaining book.  I have about 50 topics already, but coming up with topics to mansplain seems to be quite difficult.

-VIS

[Edit:  Corrected “their” to “there.”  Happens to the best of us.]

Thank you!

femaledenialdiary:

femaledenialdiary:

vintageinstepford:

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has purchased either one (or both) of my 2 books from Amazon.

I received another royalty payment overnight and thought it was only right to thank you all for supporting my writing.

-VIS

I will buy the books today and I will read and review them as good as my female brain can do! I love the fact that you have books and the titles sound interesting!

I brought one book with the bimbo mantras. I can’t find the other one but I have enough to think about with the one book. I made a list with my favorite (1,3,4,16,17,21,25, 26 makes me wet because of the explanation. 28, 31, 32, 38, 39, 40,41,42,54, 60, 62, 65, 67, 68, 74, 75, 77, 80, 82, 83, 88. 89, 90, 97, 98, 100!!) I just went through it quick BUT I want dedicate a day(or week?) for every single mantra to keep it in my mind longer.

What do do you think? Good idea?

I’d suggest one week focusing on each mantra, repeating it to yourself as much as possible.  The busier your mind is with a mantra, the less it can think about icky stuff that stresses you out.

-VIS

Thank you!

amindlessrose:

vintageinstepford:

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has purchased either one (or both) of my 2 books from Amazon.

I received another royalty payment overnight and thought it was only right to thank you all for supporting my writing.

-VIS

Books??

You can find my book titles here:

http://vintageinstepford.com/books

Or by going to Amazon and searching 101 Bimbo Mantras by Mr. V. I. Stepford, and Meditations & Reflections by Joseph Kahler (both pseudonyms).

In December, I’m hoping to complete a long-standing project: 101 Topics Mansplained for Girls.  If all goes well, it will be released in time for Christmas.

-VIS

Talk In Circles

vintageinstepford:

When you’re having a debate with her, talk in circles to completely confuse her.  Whenever she makes a counterpoint to your argument, say things like:

You’re making my point for me.

That’s exactly what I’ve been trying to get through to you.

So you agree with me then.

Then, when she’s convinced she’s right, tell her:

No, no, sweetheart, you had it right a few minutes ago.  Now you’re not even making sense.

Even if none of what she says is true, talking in circles in a debate can confuse the life out of her.  It will frustrate her terribly.  It will also arouse her more than she ever believed possible.

When she feels like a dummy, she acts like a slut.

-VIS

I know what you’re thinking.  “Oh not another stupid spiral.  I just want to read.”

But have you ever asked yourself why you’re avoiding all the spirals you see on Tumblr?  Is it because you’re just a tiny bit afraid that one of these spirals could make your brain pop and turn you into a blank, mindless, Stepford doll?

Give it a try.  Just this once.  Get comfortable, stare into the spiral, and just let go of all the stress you’ve had.

You’ll love being transformed into a Stepford Girl.

-VIS

Girls will never be equal to Men

cock-craving-allie:

We just won’t. We’re not as smart as Men, we’re not as strong as Men, we’re not as creative or as inventive as Men.

Our brains are not as good as Men’s. Our bodies are designed less for the labor and work men’s are, but for smaller activities and child raising.

There’s nothing wrong with admitting that we, as girls, are inferior to Men.

Girls Don’t Need College

vintageinstepford:

What’s most interesting about photographing models is that the photographer and the viewer are not interested in the girl’s brains, her personality, the grades she got in school, her degree, or any of that nonsense.  They just want to the model to capture men’s attention.

And this is a perfect example of a girl who knows how to capture a man’s attention.  Nice tits, nice face, good makeup, nice body, completely vacant stare, and she looks like she couldn’t pass a 2nd grade math test.

So when you think you need that university education, just remember this girl.  While you’re in class, she’s working out.  While you’re cramming for finals, she’s perfecting her makeup routine.  While you’re working 12 hours a day as a waitress, she’s the customer whose latest man is buying her the dinner that you served.

If you think school is going to make you a smarter person, a wiser person, and grant you a bigger income and all the comforts of life, I have news for you: this girl gets things handed to her on a silver platter because she’s nothing more than three things:

Dumb, pretty, and submissive.

Give that some thought before classes start in September.

-VIS

jennisummers:

vintageinstepford:

I’m back from the cabin.  We talked about spending another night there, but I have to work in the morning.

Definitely going back next weekend.  What a great time!

Inbox and submits are re-opened.

I expect the single girls behaved themselves?  If not, I expect confessions.

-VIS

this girl behaved herself Sir. girl was not punished for anything.

Good girl, Jenni.  That’s what I like to hear.

Obviously your Owner trained you well.  Kudos to him.

-VIS

I’m back from the cabin.  We talked about spending another night there, but I have to work in the morning.

Definitely going back next weekend.  What a great time!

Inbox and submits are re-opened.

I expect the single girls behaved themselves?  If not, I expect confessions.

-VIS