If I very much want everyone to acknowledge that we woman can do/be anything men can, but still I acknowledge that we shouldn’t because it’s better for us to be soft and feminine and fragile and loving to our men. Where does that put me?

I hate to break it to you, but if you honestly believe that … well … it makes you delusional.

Women can do/be anything men can?  That’s crazy.  If that’s the case, why is every single sport divided into men’s and ladies’ competitions?

If that’s the case, why do fire and police academies have to lower the standards for women?

If that’s the case, why are there so few female CEOs?

Women are simply not as competent as men in many, many fields.

That’s why women are slower in sports competitions.  That’s why fire and police academies have to lower the standards to meet their female hiring quotas.  That’s why there’s so few female CEO’s.  It’s not because of some invisible “patriarchy” that meets in dark rooms and conspires to keep women from becoming successful.  That’s just a lame excuse and it goes against Occam’s Razor (the solution with the least assumptions is probably the correct one).  The truth is that women just simply don’t measure up in many (not all) fields.

If you honestly, in your heart of hearts believe that women can do or be anything that men can, I suggest you take an honest look around the world.  Not with rose-colored feminist glasses on, not with cognitive dissonance bouncing around in your head, but with clear 20/20 vision.

It’s not that women shouldn’t be anything a man can be, it’s that women are simply incapable of doing the things men do or being the things men are.

I know that’s a bitter pill to swallow, but at least it’s the truth.


We need to go back to using the word “broad” when referring to girls.

“What a dumb broad.”

“Whoa, check out that broad.”

“Was that broad talking to you?”

It’s more respectful than “bitch,” but makes girls aware we know they’re inferior.


Dear feminists:

Not every woman has to be a feminist.

Not every woman wants to be a feminist.

As a matter of fact, a lot of women think feminism really f*cked things up for them.  A lot of them would rather be sitting at their man’s feet waiting for him to give a command.

You’d be surprised at the staggering number of women who absolutely despise feminism and everything it stands for.

You are not in the majority.  You are, and will always be, a radical fringe group.

According to university admissions statistics, your numbers are falling drastically.  At the same time, the Men First movement has exploded.

In the end, your theories won’t matter, your ideas won’t matter, you won’t matter.

Men are taking back a world that rightfully belongs to them.  Men built it, men get to control it.

One piece of advice:

Fall in line or get out of the way.


Sensible people.

A Man’s Natural State

We talk a lot about a woman’s natural state – feminine, submissive, pleasing – but I don’t believe there’s enough written about a man’s natural state.

See, in a perfect world, a man’s natural state is to be sexist.  He’d happily slap any girl on the ass for a job well done, and he’d remind girls on a regular basis that they’re just girls, there to amuse and entertain him, and he really has no obligation to take any girl seriously.

A man’s natural state is to catcall a girl who looks good and, if she looks really great that day, to grope her without wondering if it’s “o.k.” to do so.

A man’s natural state is to fuck the life out of his best girl, use her as his personal fucktoy, then kiss her tenderly and remind her that he still loves her – despite all his groping and slapping with other girls.

A man’s natural state is not to remain monogamous, but to spread his seed far and wide, to as many girls as he can.  A man feels an instinctive need to know that no matter how old he is, he can still find an attractive girl who’s willing to suck his cock or bend over for him.

Men have always restrained themselves, and for good reason.  Decades ago, we restrained ourselves out of gentlemanliness, now we restrain ourselves because of possible lawsuits or criminal charges.  But let’s face it, just about every man on the face of the planet would grope an attractive girl, catcall her if he wasn’t close enough to grope her, and fuck as many girls as he could.

So while girls are free to return to their natural state, we men must continue to restrain ourselves.

And that just proves that girls who return to femininity and their natural state will always have greater female privilege than any angry, ugly feminist.

And they’ll also get a lot more attention from men.


Good Things Are In The Middle

There’s an Arabic saying:

خير الأمور أوسطها

It means “good things are in the middle.”  Extremism of any kind doesn’t work.

Take, for example, feminism.  While equality may seem like a good idea on paper, it’s not human nature.  For all of human history, women have been the support system for men while the men provided, protected, and cherished.  And when you consider intersectional feminism, a philosophy by which all White men are guilty of a crime they never committed, that’s extremism that doesn’t work.

But take a look at the other side of the coin.  Misogyny doesn’t work.  Oh sure, misogyny is fun for a sexual thrill, but it doesn’t make for a working relationship.  No man worth his salt is going to pay $20,000 for a girl’s plastic surgery only to have her stay home and lie in bed as a fucktoy while contributing nothing to the household.  Sex takes up maybe 1/6th of your day – ¼ of your day if your sex drive is incredibly high.  But what do you do for the other 8, 10, 20 hours of the day?  You have to have a working dynamic, and a misogyny dynamic just doesn’t work in the long run.

This is where the Men First movement comes in.  Sure, Men First advocates that the man’s pleasure comes first, that a man’s decision is better than the decision of a silly girl, and that a man speaks while the girl is silent, but it also means that the man holds doors open for his girl (thereby allowing the girl to go first), the man goes downstairs first when there’s a noise in the house at 2am, and when his girl is getting anxious, the man immediately stops what he’s doing to calm her down and reassure her that everything is fine.

Men First is the middle ground between feminism and misogyny.  

And good things are in the middle.


To the feminists looking at Tumblr blogs …


There’s something inherently arousing about the Patriarchy, isn’t there?

Men mansplaining to you, belittling you, objectifying you …

Your brain tells you that that’s not right, it’s not justice.  After all, you’ve been told you’re their economic, political, and social equal.

And yet your body betrays you.  Your slit gets wet when you see the image of a girl licking a man’s boot.  You can feel your nipples harden when you imagine being held by the throat and fucked like an object.  Your heart pounds when you fantasize about being forced to do degrading acts that you know would cause your feminist friends to reject you as a gender traitor with tendencies of internalized misogyny.

And yet here you are, back on Tumblr, edging to the most degrading porn, the stuff that demeans women, that objectifies women, that causes you to wonder if maybe the Patriarchy isn’t all bad.

It’s the guilt that turns you on, isn’t it?  It’s that worshiping a man – any man – is taboo for you.  And that’s why it’s such a damn turn-on.  It’s naughty.  It’s taboo.  And you can’t stop thinking about it.

If only you could try it … just once … to be slapped when a cock is pounding you, to have a man’s cum shot all over your face, to be forced to lick the boot of a man who makes you call him Master.  Just once, you think … just once.

Let’s face it, little Miss Feminist.  You’ve reached the point of no return.  You’ve crossed the red line.  You know there’s no turning back now.  You’ll never look at feminism the same way again.

Welcome back to the natural order.  Welcome to Natural Inequality.

Welcome to the Patriarchy.


Gaslighting = Fun


One of the best ways to gaslight her is to use the simple phrase, “I know you better than you know yourself, and you’re wrong.

Suddenly, she becomes confused.  She starts questioning herself.  “It’s true.  He knows me really well.  Could he be right?  Am I wrong?

Inevitably, she’ll come back to you and say something like, “if I’m wrong, what makes you think you’re right?

That’s the perfect opportunity to talk down to her like she’s a toddler.  Yes, she’ll get even more frustrated but the physical effects – her instant arousal – are undeniable.

Gaslighting can be a lot of fun.  Make sure you have consent to do it, but once you do, make her question the very core of her beliefs for your amusement.


Good Housekeeping (21st Century Edition) – So You’re Inferior To Men.  Now What?


Discovering and accepting that you – as a woman – are inferior to men has its advantages.


So, you’re a woman who’s discovering she’s inferior to
men.  What do you do next?

The most empowering thing you can do is own it.  

Being feminine, being inferior, and being a female come with
a huge number of privileges.  You’d get a
much lighter sentence if you were convicted of a crime.  You’re more likely to get out of speeding
tickets and traffic violations.  You’re
more likely to get assistance when you need it.

So what should you do?

Watch your diet.  I
don’t mean go on a fad diet (those are really harmful).  I mean make a lifelong commitment to eat
healthy foods every single time you eat.
Drink more water and less sugary drinks.

Exercise.  And no,
going to the store to buy potato chips is not exercise.  If you can’t afford a gym, there are things
around the house you can lift in repetitions to get fit.  You don’t even need to lift anything.  Basic exercises like crunches, push ups, running,
and even walking will help keep your body in shape.

Dress well.  You don’t
need to spend a fortune on nice looking clothes, just clothes that look nice on
you.  Wear dresses, not jeans.  Wear heels, no sneakers.

Act like a lady.  Don’t
cuss unnecessarily, don’t gossip, don’t make crude remarks about anyone or anything.  Silence is not only golden, but it adds a little
feminine mystique.

Be helpful.  Sure, you’re
inferior, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be helpful.  If a man needs something, fetch it for him.  If he doesn’t need anything right that moment,
just smile and be pretty.  That’s helpful
all by itself.

You’ll find that if you follow these guidelines, your female
privilege will soar and men will be falling over themselves to help you.

And when that happens, you’ll wonder why you ever thought being
inferior was such a bad thing.

You’re Inferior To Men.  Now What?, Good Housekeeping (21st Century Edition), September 2017.  © Copyright 2017 Vintage In Stepford, All Rights Reserved.

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Thanks very much for your support and for following the blog.  I hope to keep you informed and entertained going forward.

5 pieces of information.  Gold Star!  Very good girl!


“Online Confessions” Open

Well, it’s a Sunday night, and I’ve decided to try another round of Online Confessions.  The previous 3 (or was it 2?) rounds were so successful, I thought we’d give it another go.

Here’s how it works:

You confess one of your deepest darkest secrets in my anon and include a fake name and initial (like Lisa D. or Marissa G.).  I’ll clean it up enough for publication, attach an appropriate picture, and your confession will appear on my blog for everyone to see.

Think of it as a personalized Whisper app game.

I’ll turn on my anons now and we’ll get started.


One Word Commands


Remember that, at any given time, your girl has a lot of noise going on inside that inferior little brain of hers.

To be fair, it’s hard for girls to hear you over all that racket.

Keep the commands simple and clear – reduce it all to one word if you can:




These are the commands she needs from you, not thousand word oratories on the virtues of sitting, eating, or napping.

She’ll comply because it’s the only thing she can hear over the roar of traffic in her head.


Dear Sir, i just wanted you to know how much i appreciate your blog. i always dreamed of living the a traditional lifestyle, but i just never found the right man. But reading your posts lets me know that there still are real men out there that….want what i always wanted. i don’t know why you thought of shutting down your blog but i want you to know how much i appreciate it. im 42 white female US 5’3

Thank you so much for dropping me this note of encouragement.  It’s little asks like this that make it all worthwhile.

I’ve had to limit the amount of time I have my inbox open because of the amounts of hate mail I get, but the support I’ve received this evening is almost overwhelming.

Thank you, everyone.

4 pieces of information.  Very good girl!


I’m a part-time xdresser who is thinking about going full-time. I love being feminine and believe in strong gender roles. I love love love the idea of the Stepford Wife lifestyle and being around cocky, misogynistic men. One catch: I’m not physically attracted to men. Just emotionally and psychologically attracted to masculinity. If the physical never “clicks,” do you think there’s any hope for a LTR with a man if kissing and sex might never be anything more than an obligation I provide to him?

I’m sure it’s a possibility.  You may be looking for a masculine man who is strictly looking for companionship as opposed to a physical relationship.

Now, how you would go about finding that, I don’t know, but it sound like that’s what you’re interested in – companionship only.


What are some other resources I can use to learn how to worship men?

To be perfectly honest, I don’t follow any blogs, so I’m really not the best person to ask for resources on Tumblr blogs.

Once you find a misogynist or Men First blog, try looking through the notes on some of the posts.  You’re sure to find a host of other blogs that will teach you how to properly worship.

@the-modern-female is an excellent resource I can think of off the top of my head.  @cumslutallie is an excellent blog if you like hentai.


Hello Sir. I recently found your blog and I want to tell you that it is a big help for me to understand things about my life as it is right now. Five years ago my Dom and I decided to create our Stepford Paradise and I quit my career chasing this dream. I do apologize for my bad English. I’m 34yo. Female. Mexican. Doctor. 24/7 slave and a good girl under construction. Please keep the good work here.

I’m very glad to hear that.  Hopefully, you’re happier now than you were when you were chasing meaningless things like a career.  Pleasing your man is much less stress, isn’t it?

And your English is fine.  Well done.

3 pieces of information.  Good girl!