Traditional Gender Roles are simple: he protects, provides, and helps her grow.  In return, she takes care of his needs, cares for his home, and becomes his stress-reliever.

If that’s not a simple relationship with no complications, I don’t know what is.


Going to traditional gender roles legit saved my marriage! 😍😍

I realize switching to a TGR dynamic in your marriage had nothing to do with me, but I always love to hear things like this.  A marriage is on the rocks, the couple gives it one last chance with a new dynamic (some strange thing called “Traditional Gender Roles”) and BAM!  Saved marriage.

I love hearing stories like this.  And it’s a testimony to the happiness that comes with Traditional Gender Roles.


Give Her Commands, Not Requests.


When you give her an instruction, don’t be overly polite.

Don’t say:

Would you please hand me that book?

Could you please get me a coffee?

Would you mind handing that newspaper to me?

See, in your girl’s mind, those are decisions to be made.  “Would I please?” “Could I?”  “Would I mind?

Decisions like these complicate her world and the last thing she needs is more complications in her life.

At the same time, manners are important and by using them, you’re setting the politeness bar for her.

Instead of the above, try:

Please hand me that book.

Get me a coffee, please.

Hand that news paper to me, doll.

See?  Much simpler.  No decisions to be made, no thinking involved.  Easy, concise instructions make her head clearer and her heart lighter.

So when you give her an instruction, don’t leave anything to chance.  A short, memorable command – not request – is what she needs to hear.

And she’ll obey without question.


(bows ) hello i follow you and i agree with your page 100% & Yes i am a woman

Thank you very much for reading and following.

Be warned, though, that the will come a time when you’ll disagree with something I write.  I write to different audiences who practice different things – some readers are strictly traditional, some are into hard core S&M – so you’re bound to find something that doesn’t appeal to you.

I’ve never known anyone who agrees with everything I’ve written.  If you find something with which you disagree, be assured that it wasn’t written for your style of Traditional Gender Role relationship.

1 piece of information.  Good girl.


Good Housekeeping (21st Century Edition) – Being a Homemaker Requires Brains and Skills

You’ve Probably Been Told That Being a Homemaker is the Worst Career Choice You Can Make – But Think Again

We live in a society that pressures young women to go into fields like business and law.  Businesswomen and lawyers spend $300 per month on lattes, $2,000 – $3,000 per month on lunches, and a $500 for a vintage outfit, and $250 for maid service.  A good homemaker can provide delicious custom lattes to herself and her husband for less than $30 per month, excellent deli–quality lunches for less than $150 per month, can create a unique vintage outfit for herself for under $50, and the only expense involved in keeping the home clean is buying the cleaning products.

You see, being a homemaker is a great deal different than what you’ve been taught; it’s not the lazy, stupid route that feminists would have you believe.  As the Operations Manager of a home, the homemaker must be sure to lower expenses of the home without sacrificing quality (sounds like the job of a CEO if you think about it).  The extra money that the homemaker saves can be spent by her husband on home improvements, buying her new appliances, improving the garden, new pots and pans, Christmas, Birthdays, Valentine’s Day, even vacations for the two of you.

It’s not as glamorous as being a businesswoman or lawyer?  That depends on how glamorous you make it.  Why can’t you go about your homemaking duties dressed in heels and a  vintage dress with pearls and full makeup on?

You don’t get as much recognition from your boss if you’re a homemaker?  Nonsense.  As a homemaker, your boss gives you sex, gifts, shoes, flowers, you name it.  If that’s not recognition, tell me what is.

Learning to cook, clean, sew, and sexually pleasure your husband are critical skills.  And while some may come more naturally than others, these skills are essential to the smooth and efficient operation of the home.

On some Traditional Gender Roles blogs, we see a lot of “stay home and suck dick” memes which is a great sexual fantasy, but it doesn’t do much to improve the man’s financial standing in the world.  Your husband can’t be considered successful if you are nothing more than a sexual toy.  Just staying home and pleasuring your husband is the job of a housewife – a homemaker’s job is much more difficult.  Cooking, cleaning, sewing, gardening, laundry, ironing, medicine, organization – these are critical skills to the homemaker.

So the next time you’re told that “being a housewife is a job for losers”, you can quietly giggle knowing that you’ll be dressed in unique, stylish clothes, eating restaurant level food for every meal, enjoying top–quality lattes, coffees, and teas, all while looking spectacular doing it.

Homemaker is a loser job?

No.  An hour long commute only to spend half your day’s wages on clothes, coffee, and food is for losers.

You’re a winner.

That’s why you’re a homemaker.

Being a Homemaker Requires Brains and Skills.  Good Housekeeping (21st Century Edition).  Originally published October, 2017.  Edited and Republished March, 2018.  Copyright © 2017, 2018 Vintage In Stepford.  All Rights Reserved.

Literally Objectify Her


You’re relaxing with the newspaper and she asks, “is there anything I can get you?

You grin and reply, “a footstool would be great.

She moves to retrieve the footrest and you correct her.  “No, no, honey.  You’re my footrest today.

Order her to get down on her hands and knees and stay perfectly still while you put your feet up and continue to read.

Maybe it’ll take you an hour to finish the paper.  Maybe it’ll take longer.  That’s okay.  You’re comfortable and that’s all that matters.

And what about her?

Don’t worry about her.  She’s just a girl.


You block people for commenting an emoji when they reblog your stuff cause you just don’t like emojis. That really stupid and childish. It’s not stealing your content, it’s showing their expectations/reaction to your post.

I “just don’t like emojis?”  lol … whatttt?

What’s next?  You’re going to call me “emojiphobic?”

Thanks for the chuckle, dude.


The Gentleman’s Times – How  (Not) To Choke Her



You may think that all you have to do is cut off her air supply.  Think again.

On Tumblr, and a lot of other places for that matter, you’re
going to see a lot of scenes of a man choking a girl.  For girls, it’s a turn on that a man has that
kind of control and power over them.  For
men, it’s a turn on that her very life is in his hands.

But what you see isn’t necessarily what you should be
doing.  NEVER choke a girl – or anyone
else – by placing pressure on the front of the throat.

You see, it really shouldn’t be calling choking at all.  It’s less of a “choke” and more of a “neck
squeeze.”  But since “neck squeeze” doesn’t
sound sexy, we use the term “choke.”

The trachea (windpipe) at the front of the throat is
flexible, yes, but it can also be easily crushed.  If you apply too much pressure to the
trachea, it will collapse, allowing no air to pass through.  The only way to regain the ability to breathe
is by an emergency tracheotomy.  And don’t
try to convince her that you’re skilled in the art of emergency tracheotomy
surgery.  Trust me, that won’t fly.

The proper way to gain control of her with your hand is to
wrap your hand around her throat without applying very much pressure at all to
the front of the throat.  The magic is in
your fingers and thumb.  Apply pressure
to the SIDES of the neck, thereby constricting the Carotid Arteries and Jugular
Veins.  Now, in theory,
with enough pressure on these veins and arteries, you can make her pass out in
6-8 seconds, but a) you probably can’t apply that much pressure with just your
hand, and, b) if you could apply that much pressure, you’re going to hurt her.

The key to a good “choke hold” is to apply enough pressure
to these veins and arteries on the sides of the neck to make her
lightheaded.  As you constrict the blood
flow to her brain, that is precisely what will happen.  She’ll feel lightheaded and euphoric.  She’ll probably beg you not to stop, but you
must.  Don’t apply pressure to these
areas for more than 20 seconds at a time, leaving at least 5 minutes for the
brain to recapture oxygen from the blood before trying it again.

Choking is considered “edge play,” and if you’re going to incorporate
edge play into your relationship, do your research and know what can harm her
and what can’t, or you’ll end up with an expensive trip to the ER and – very likely
– a trip to the local jail.

How (Not) To Choke Her. The Gentleman’s Times, Spring 2018 Issue. Copyright © March 17, 2018, Vintage In Stepford.  All Rights Reserved.

Thank you Sir. I’ve heard other gentlemen say this too.

Literally Objectify Her


You’re relaxing with the newspaper and she asks, “is there anything I can get you?

You grin and reply, “a footstool would be great.

She moves to retrieve the footrest and you correct her.  “No, no, honey.  You’re my footrest today.

Order her to get down on her hands and knees and stay perfectly still while you put your feet up and continue to read.

Maybe it’ll take you an hour to finish the paper.  Maybe it’ll take longer.  That’s okay.  You’re comfortable and that’s all that matters.

And what about her?

Don’t worry about her.  She’s just a girl.


Girls Don’t Need College


What’s most interesting about photographing models is that the photographer and the viewer are not interested in the girl’s brains, her personality, the grades she got in school, her degree, or any of that nonsense.  They just want to the model to capture men’s attention.

And this is a perfect example of a girl who knows how to capture a man’s attention.  Nice tits, nice face, good makeup, nice body, completely vacant stare, and she looks like she couldn’t pass a 2nd grade math test.

So when you think you need that university education, just remember this girl.  While you’re in class, she’s working out.  While you’re cramming for finals, she’s perfecting her makeup routine.  While you’re working 12 hours a day as a waitress, she’s the customer whose latest man is buying her the dinner that you served.

If you think school is going to make you a smarter person, a wiser person, and grant you a bigger income and all the comforts of life, I have news for you: this girl gets things handed to her on a silver platter because she’s nothing more than three things:

Dumb, pretty, and submissive.

Give that some thought before classes start in September.


Hello VIS, From glancing through your blog it appears you are an author. I am an avid reader. Would you mind providing a suggested reading list. I have found some of my favorite books when asking this question of authors. I’m a 42 year old female, 5’6″ in height, I’m a busty & voluptuous 206 lbs, I reside in West Virginia, USA.

Hi there,

I like reading and re-reading classics.  Anything by Hemingway, of course (he wrote over 60 short stories which are worth a read), 1984 by Orwell (which I think is very important to re-read in these times), Moby Dick (Melville) is one of my all-time favourites, Lolita (Nabokov), The Brothers Karamazov (Dostoevsky), Anna Karenina (Tolstoy), and Uncle Tom’s Cabin (Stowe).

But I prefer non-fiction works.  Some of my favourites are “The Creature From Jekyll Island” (Griffin), “The Richest Man In Babylon” (Clason), “Zetetic Astronomy” (Rowbotham), “The Art of Manliness” (McKay), and “Behold a Pale Horse” (Cooper).

I also love poetry.  Cummings and Neruda are definitely my favourites.  Neruda’s sonnets, particularly, are amazing work even when translated into English.

5 pieces of information.  Gold Star!  Very good girl!


Online Confessions

(I couldn’t leave this one out … it’s too good)


“My guitar teacher is a really hot old man who’s a friend of my father.  He gets really touchy (in more ways than one!) when he shows me how to properly hold and play it.  I keep acting dumb and messing up on purpose just so he can show me more and do more groping.  

“We both pretend like nothing is happening when he hugs me from behind to hold my hand on the guitar or when he rests his hand on my tits while I follow his instructions. 

“Who knew music lessons could be this much fun!  Maybe I should try another instrument next?”

-Ria P.

Dear Ria,

You’d probably like the organ. 😉

Seriously, though, as you can see from the above gif, piano can be very hands on.


Online Confessions

I want to wake up one day to find out that my husband has decided to whore me out to a group of brutal Black men.  They’d degrade me in every possible way – peeing on me, stretching me, you name it – and then leave me to walk back home like that.  If my fantasy were to be perfect, when I got home, my husband would make me sleep in the garage and would hose me off to clean me for the next clients.

-Sarah R.

Online Confessions

Every time I leave the house, I’m hoping someone will grope me or even go so far as to rape me.  I take public transportation as much as I can because I find the men more touchy and brave on a bus or train.  I’ve had so much touching and groping I can’t believe it!  I’ve even had a couple of guys jerk off while sitting next to me!  So far, none of them have tried to rape me, but I really hope that happens soon.  I promise, I’ll be a still, quiet, good girl while they do it!”

-Safi M.

Online Confessions

“My husband controls every aspect of my life.  I love it when he demeans me – especially in public.  

“I’m a good wife.  I keep our house immaculately clean, dress how he wants, cook what he likes.  I absolutely love being his little slavegirl.  The thing is, he’s quite sadistic and often leaves bruises on me (which I love).

“He’s incredibly charismatic and everyone that knows him loves him.  If I were to tell one of them how sadistic he is, they’d say I’m crazy.  I have to hide the bruises when guests come over because they’d never believe me if I told them that he gave them to me.”

-Rita Rose

Online Confessions

Recently, I stayed with my brother for three weeks.  He works shift work so he’s very rarely in the apartment.  The only other one there was his roommate.

“Eventually, I got so comfortable around my brother’s roommate that I started dressing slutty or wearing nothing but a towel.  He kept looking at my body and asking completely inappropriate questions, but I really wish he had taken it a step further and just had his way with me – I wouldn’t have said no.  

“I often fantasize about being a slut to all of my brother’s friends behind his back and letting them take turns on me.  I think it would be amazing for my brother to introduce me to one of his friends not knowing I gave the guy a blow job that afternoon.

-Anna A.

Online Confessions

I’m a woman, engaged to be married, who has been flirting with my father’s best friend (13 years my senior) for years.  I’ve been fantasizing about him, thinking about what it would be like to be his for just one night.

A few nights ago, it happened.  I had sex with my father’s best friend and it was incredible.  It’s like nothing I’ve ever experienced and I know I’ll probably never experience anything like that again.

– Anonymous

Online Confessions – August 25, 2018.


It’s that time again!  Saturday night and time for “Online Confessions.”

You tell me a fantasy you’ve had (or one you’ve lived) anonymously, and add a fake name like “Lisa P.” or “Megan D.”

I’ll reword your anon into something suitable for this blog, attach a picture, and you get to see your deep, dark secret broadcast anonymously for the world to see.

Let’s get started.