It’s A Man’s World, Ladies

It’s the spring holidays, and whether you’re celebrating Easter or the Passover, it’s important to remember a very simple rule to make your home a more pleasant place for guests:

Your job is to cook and to show hospitality to your guests.  It is not your job to inject opinions on politics, current events, or gossip about friends and family.  The quieter you are, the more you’ll be appreciated as an excellent hostess.

Whether you’ll be serving ham or matzoh this weekend, it’s always best to do so with your mouth closed.

Enjoy your holidays!


Why My Number Of New Followers Exploded 600% Today.

It’s really quite amazing.

Certain bloggers get terribly offended by my stuff, so they reblog it and leave their own nasty comments questioning my manhood, questioning whether or not I belong in the BDSM community (I’m not a member, so relax), and just generally showing themselves to be a little unhinged.

It’s the followers of those blogs that fascinate me.  They have some pretty open minds, so they want to find out what this Vintage In Stepford guy is all about.

They realize they actually like my stuff, they heart a few of my posts, then they click the “follow” button.

In fact, after “professional outrage” exploded on Tumblr at about 2pm today, my number of new followers skyrocketed to the highest level I’ve ever had on this blog or on my previous incarnation of VIS.

It’s amazing that while those who are outraged think they’re really “putting VIS in his place,” what they’re actually doing is helping their followers to realize things about themselves such as they don’t want rights, they like to be hit, they like the idea of being little more than a sextoy.  And they realize that all of this is done with an informed consent agreement in place.

So despite how I disagree with the nasty comments made about me, I want to thank those who have taken a stand against my blog.  The more you reblog and leave nasty comments, the quicker this blog grows.

[Edit: As of 11 pm, this number is now 842%.]


It appears that a group of people who disagree with my blog have decided to report me to Tumblr to have me banned.

This even though my profile states quite clearly that everything – and I do mean everything – I suggest requires informed consent by all parties involved.

So if my blog suddenly disappears sometime soon, don’t be concerned.  I’ll be back within a day or two.


Grab Her Ass In Public



One of the most powerful signals you can send to the world is that your girl is your property to do with as you please.

By grabbing and slapping your girl’s ass in public, something no other man would dare to do, you’re declaring, “she is mine and I’ll do to her whatever I wish.

In an age when governments and authorities are looking to undermine a man’s authority over his girl, nothing will get her wetter faster than a public declaration of ownership and control.


Anyway your woman isn’t your property and you can’t just do whatever you want with her you creep.

See what I mean, folks?  Authorities – even if they claim to be “traditional” – will try to tell you that YOUR girl is not truly YOUR girl.  They’ll try to convince you that you can’t do as you please even if you have a consent agreement in place.  This is the age when everybody thinks they’re an authority over your relationship.

By the way, folks, this woman claims she blocks sexist blogs “on sight” and demands that anyone messaging her “be respectful,” yet didn’t block my blog on sight and refuses to be respectful herself.  Sounds like pure hypocrisy to me.

@tradfems :

If you have consent, you can do as you please within the confines of that consensual agreement.

If you had read my profile before shooting your mouth off, you would know that all of my suggestions come with the caveat that consent has been given and obtained by both parties.  Instead, you chose the modern route of making an ass out of yourself before being fully informed.

To top it off, truly traditional girls don’t call people they don’t know by disrespectful names.  Once you get to know someone and their basic beliefs and philosophies, then you have a right to call someone a creep.  You know nothing about me or my work, so your insult comes off as ill-informed and – quite frankly – ignorant of all reason.

You’re obviously just a feminist masquerading as a traditionalist.  Either that, or you simply have no sense of integrity.

And that is to your shame.


The Power Of A Consensual Battering Agreement

So you’re still on the fence about signing an agreement that allows your man to hit you whenever he deems appropriate?

Imagine if you did.  You’d watch your tongue more closely.  You’d behave more respectfully toward him.  You’d know that he cares when he hits you.

Signing a consensual battering agreement does more than give him permission to hit you.  It’s brings discipline to your world.  It makes you accountable for your actions.

It brings structure and order to a life out of control.

How can that be a bad thing?


Grab Her Ass In Public

One of the most powerful signals you can send to the world is that your girl is your property to do with as you please.

By grabbing and slapping your girl’s ass in public, something no other man would dare to do, you’re declaring, “she is mine and I’ll do to her whatever I wish.

In an age when governments and authorities are looking to undermine a man’s authority over his girl, nothing will get her wetter faster than a public declaration of ownership and control.


Men still control approximately 97% of the power and wealth on earth.  Feminists and SJW’s claim this is a bad thing.

But in 12 years, between 2000-2012, the level of absolute poverty in the world dropped by 50%, which was – by a large margin – the fastest worldwide creation of wealth in history.  China and India now have massive middle-class groups.  Sub-Saharan Africa is now gaining wealth at the fastest rate of any region on earth.

Feminists and SJW’s might try to take credit for these changes.  But the truth is that people who identify as feminists make up only 10% of the Western population, and men still control roughly 97% of the power and wealth.  

We – that is, men – decided – without the influence of feminists, but primarily on the influence of feminine girls we marry – that we wanted to help.  We wanted to make a difference. We wanted everyone to prosper, not just ourselves.

While feminists and SJW’s bitch about the patriarchy, let’s bear in mind that most women can barely balance their checkbooks, let alone offer the answers to world problems that men have offered in the last 20 or so years.

I’m glad to see feminism fading.  Now men can get back to work making the lives of everyone – including former feminists – better and wealthier.


Dear SJW’s

I wish you’d put a little bit of your passion into solving real problems.

There are children starving, animals suffering, entire ecosystems collapsing, and yet here you are bitching about Patriarchy and pronouns?

You are hereby considered invalid in society, because you clearly don’t give a rat’s ass about real problems.


All of Mankind.

It must be great to be a girl who meets a dominant, older, traditional man.

No matter how smart you think you are when you meet us, we’ll quickly teach you that you’re naive and starry-eyed.

That’s when the fun begins.  Gaslighting, consensual abuse, edge play …

Oh, the places you’ll go.


What Have “Rights” Done For You Anyway?

Beg your man to take your rights away, even if only for a weekend.

What have rights done for you anyway?  You get to vote, except you think the candidates suck.  You get equal opportunity, though all you want to do is be a housewife/sex toy.  You can say and think whatever you wish, except that you really want a dominant, older man to tell you to shut your pretty little mouth and do as you’re told.

What have rights done for you anyway?  Do your rights bring true happiness?Absolutely not.

So beg your man to strip you of your rights.  You’ll be amazed how happiness greets you at the end of a chain.


To Feminists Checking Out This Blog …

You should know that the true female condition is competition.  Girls have to be continually competing against each other to win the best man.

And the best man is not some dude with a man bun who supports your boring marches.  No, the best man is a man who will dominate you, put you in your place, and never let you forget that you’re his inferior.

For girls, life is a competition and you’re losing.  That’s good news for other girls, because if you’re not competing, they stand a better chance of landing the best possible man.

You know that whenever you edge to Tumblr, your tastes drift over into more misogynistic, violent, and degrading porn.  Why?  Because you want to be treated like that by the best possible man.  But as long as you keep behaving like an absolute bitch, you’re not gonna land him.

So, from my single female followers, thank you, feminists, for being so preoccupied with bullshit theories that you’re unable to compete with the submissive, cock-loving, pretty girls.

No man wants to bang an angry, bitter bitch anyway.


VIS Redux has been set to explicit.  It will no longer show up on anyone’s searches, hence there will be very few hashtags on my posts.  Hashtags mean nothing if a blog is set to explicit.

If you want to promote this blog, reblog the material I write.  That’s the fastest way for people to learn that VIS is back.



Yes, I’m back.

You know my biggest failing in my old blog?  I was too nice, too accepting, and I wasn’t true to myself.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m still pretty progressive for a conservative, traditional guy.  I still see t-girls as girls, and I still support things like gay marriage, but the problem with having 8,000 followers is you begin to try to appease them as opposed to being honest.

So fuck that for action.  From now on, when I write, it may seem kind of on the aggressive, violent side.  But I’ve never met a girl who didn’t love that about me.

I’m sure followers of VIS Redux will, too.


Wouldn’t It Be Nice If He Treated You Like A Sex Toy?

All weekend long, he throws you around, slaps you, and generally treats you as if you’re nothing more than a piece of fuckmeat designed only to get him off physically and mentally.

Let’s face it – there have been times with a man when you’ve wanted to scream, “hit me!  I won’t break in half!”  You’re not a porcelain doll, you’re a girl, and girls need to be treated roughly to feel desired (yes, it’s normal).

I don’t care if you’re the most radical feminist in the world, just the idea of living a weekend like that gets you wet.


Wouldn’t It Be Nice To Have No Rights For A Weekend?

For an entire weekend, you can’t speak unless spoken to, you get hit when you talk back, and don’t even dream of leaving the house without permission.

Deep inside a girl’s womb, she wants to know what it’s like to be a slavegirl with absolutely no rights.  

Suggest it to your man.  Social programming has told him it’s a terrible idea, but if you push him until he accepts, you’ll find that you both have an incredible weekend.


Let’s Face It – You Want To Be An Object.

And the good news is, that’s how men see you – a pretty little inferior creature whose only real purpose is to look good to keep men going through the day.

You see, despite what feminism teaches, the truth is that every girl just wants to be adored for how good she looks; how perky her tits are, how firm her ass is, how pretty she made up her face that day.  Sure people will tell you, “beauty fades, so you’d better be an amazing person when it does,” but you and I know you don’t want beauty to fade and you’re fighting it every step of the way.

Want proof?  Has any man ever told you that he loves you purely based on your sparkling personality?  No and thank God.  The moment he does, you know you need to step up your game in the appearance department.

You want to be objectified by men.  That’s your only goal in life.  Sure, you may publicly claim that objectification of women is horrible, but deep inside, you just want men to get hard when they see you in heels.

If we’re going to seek truth in life, let’s start with the basics: you’re a girl, so the only thing that really matters to you is male attention.  You can claim to be a feminist, or a social justice warrior, or whatever label you want to paste on yourself.  But that voice in your wet slit is telling you that you need men to look twice when they see you.  It’s telling you that you want to be catcalled.  It’s telling you that you need to look better tomorrow than you did today.

And hey, that’s okay.  Even if it goes against social programming, at least it’s the truth.  

It comes down to this: only beauty matters.  When you look hot and men pay attention to you, you feel a lot better than you do when other women say you’re “empowered.”

Screw being empowered.  You just want to be an object for men.


Gaslight Her

Your girl serves many purposes, but don’t forget that she can provide a great deal of personal amusement.

One such form of entertainment is gaslighting.  By making her question her own memories and even her sanity, she’ll keep you entertained for hours.

Make sure you’ve both signed a consent agreement before you do it to her, but by gaslighting her until she thinks she might be losing her mind, you’ll find she bends more easily to your will and is more interesting to be around.


The Gentleman’s Times – How  (Not) To Choke Her



You may think that all you have to do is cut off her air supply.  Think again.

On Tumblr, and a lot of other places for that matter, you’re
going to see a lot of scenes of a man choking a girl.  For girls, it’s a turn on that a man has that
kind of control and power over them.  For
men, it’s a turn on that her very life is in his hands.

But what you see isn’t necessarily what you should be
doing.  NEVER choke a girl – or anyone
else – by placing pressure on the front of the throat.

You see, it really shouldn’t be calling choking at all.  It’s less of a “choke” and more of a “neck
squeeze.”  But since “neck squeeze” doesn’t
sound sexy, we use the term “choke.”

The trachea (windpipe) at the front of the throat is
flexible, yes, but it can also be easily crushed.  If you apply too much pressure to the
trachea, it will collapse, allowing no air to pass through.  The only way to regain the ability to breathe
is by an emergency tracheotomy.  And don’t
try to convince her that you’re skilled in the art of emergency tracheotomy
surgery.  Trust me, that won’t fly.

The proper way to gain control of her with your hand is to
wrap your hand around her throat without applying very much pressure at all to
the front of the throat.  The magic is in
your fingers and thumb.  Apply pressure
to the SIDES of the neck, thereby constricting the Carotid Arteries and Jugular
Veins.  Now, in theory,
with enough pressure on these veins and arteries, you can make her pass out in
6-8 seconds, but a) you probably can’t apply that much pressure with just your
hand, and, b) if you could apply that much pressure, you’re going to hurt her.

The key to a good “choke hold” is to apply enough pressure
to these veins and arteries on the sides of the neck to make her
lightheaded.  As you constrict the blood
flow to her brain, that is precisely what will happen.  She’ll feel lightheaded and euphoric.  She’ll probably beg you not to stop, but you
must.  Don’t apply pressure to these
areas for more than 20 seconds at a time, leaving at least 5 minutes for the
brain to recapture oxygen from the blood before trying it again.

Choking is considered “edge play,” and if you’re going to incorporate
edge play into your relationship, do your research and know what can harm her
and what can’t, or you’ll end up with an expensive trip to the ER and – very likely
– a trip to the local jail.

How (Not) To Choke Her. The Gentleman’s Times, Spring 2018 Issue. Copyright © March 17, 2018, Vintage In Stepford.  All Rights Reserved.

Thank you Sir. I’ve heard other gentlemen say this too.

Clean Your Room

So you’re a single girl looking for a man who will bring structure and order to the chaos and confusion in your life?  But why wait for him to do it for you?  Why not just start small?

Clean your room.

You see, if you organize your bedroom and keep it incredibly clean every day (and yes, this means making your bed every day), you will find the rest of your life begins to fall into a structure you like best.  You’ll find your day is better organized, you clean the entire house more often, your work desk and personal lives are more orderly.  

Cleaning the place you sleep isn’t just cleaning a room, it’s cleaning your place of rest.  And when you do that, the rest of your life will fall into order very soon after.


If you are a woman in business who is acting like man in order to be seen as an equal, be aware that you will be treated as an equal, which means you are one whom men believe must be defeated and eliminated.

If, however, you are a woman in business who is behaving in a feminine manner, you will be treated as the unconscious and mute side of the male psyche, a viewpoint which men cannot tap into and, therefore, you are not to be defeated or eliminated but, instead, considered as as an asset because you can tell businessmen something about themselves that they would rather not admit.

Put 12 men in a room and they will not admit a puppy is cute.  Put one feminine woman in that room, and suddenly the men let down their guards and admit the puppy is adorable.

Every business needs its soft side to sell its products.  Your key to success is being the soft, feminine, delicate side of your company.  By doing so, you make yourself indispensable.